my name is Alexandra ashe, and I am a sober woman in recovery. by the grace of god, i was given the opportunity to live two lives in one — the journey was grueling but i wouldn’t change a thing, mostly.

my sobriety date is march 18, 2017, and i launched kinkatopia in march 2018 … right after my one-year anniversary.

In Spring of 2019, I was given the opportunity to share my experience, strength, and hope regarding staying sober and my journey running Kinkatopia via a company called reach out recovery. Since then, an incredible adventure has taken place. if you are no stranger to my platform, you know that i am very open about my recovery. the bottom line is, i share about it to help remind me of where i came from and also to encourage others. if i can do it, you can. it’s that simple.

— The Mother of Kinkajous

Click to learn more about Reach Out Recovery!

Reach Out Recovery is an organization committed to addiction prevention, healthy living, recovery, and wellness. it provides daily solutions for living a healthy, fulfilled life and work to lift the stigma alcoholism can carry with it. And, of course, they love animals!

These articles are for everyone to enjoy. Please give them a read! i wrote them!


A Story Of Recovery Through Animal Rescue
Welcome To Kinkatopia: A Place Of Recovery And Honey Bears
How To Stay Calm And Sober When Things Go Wrong
Raw Relapse: Recovery Month 2019
The Gift Of Giving – And Kinkajous
Taking Painkillers In Sobriety and Recovery
How to be a Sober, High-Functioning Professional
Finding Passion In Recovery Helps Me Stay Sober
Honey Bears and Heroin Addicts Deserve Second Chances

reach out recovery shop

reach out recovery offers a wellness/recovery guide to growing up as well as a BEAUTIFUL coloring book! I keep a copy of each on my nightstand.


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